I say these should be known way before 9, but a good list none the less. And 21 is one of my biggest pet peeves!!! Teach your children to be willing, happy helpers. It frustrates me when I ask a child to do something and they say no or they don't want to!
Crown for kids. Revelation 5:10 - And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on the earth. 1 Peter 2:9-10 - But ye [are] a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light.