That is so true for my parents, my mother especially. Playing the victim card is essentially playing to someone’s guilt. The number of times she exclaimed: it must me horrible to be my daughter! Of course my sisters or I would immediately give in on whatever the argument was, and assure her she was a wonderful mother. Toxic people like narcissists and sociopath use emotional blackmail and manipulation to control their targets.
The Villain Is So Good at Playing the Victim - SwanWaters
Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people. Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value and what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/05/23/14-rules-for-being-you/
some people have no idea ,it worrys me when so many come to me to tell on each other, they dnt click I know it goes both ways . do not mistake my kindness for weakness maybe im kind enough to give u time to grow that is strength. when people think they have me were they wont me they should consider do they .