An emotionally destructive marriage is one where one’s personhood, dignity, and freedom of choice is regularly denied, criticized, or crushed. This can be done through words, behaviors, economics, attitudes, and misusing the Scriptures… It’s characterized by repetitive attitudes and behaviors that result in tearing someone down or inhibiting her growth. This behavior is usually accompanied by a lack of awareness, a lack of responsibility, and a lack of change… Emotional...

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Some people miss the point of Marriage. It is to love & be loved... and YES, looking at the big picture, overall, it should be happy & fulfilling. Sick of societal & religious pressure to stay in bad matches. Try to fix it, but you live only once! Ending dysfunctional relationship takes guts. To do so is SUCCESS not failure!!! It frees you to find the one you need.

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What did lying to each other cost us? When you figure out the answer to this question, maybe, just maybe, you will have matured enough to stop hating me and start understanding that our children are just as important to me as they are to you. Our marriage is about our girls. Someday, you will understand that you failed me. Then and only then, will you understand just how badly I failed you and our girls to get you to grow up. The lies between us cost us everything...

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Marriage tip: Talk to you spouse more sweetly and respectfully than you would talk to anyone else. #Marriage #marriagetip

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22 years I wish I would it heard this at least ones, today I know my life would it be different. Kindness, past it on!

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