This is the sad truth 90% of time. The man I am thinking of has cheated a minimum of 4times -3 of those being long term with heavy feelings (in love with you, etc). He sadly was caught by his gf with another woman, & 2 others on the side. Not to mention his wife at home w/twins. Yeah-sick
"If someone cheats on you, it's okay if you don't stop loving him immediately. I felt like an idiot when my feelings for him didn't go away the moment I found out about the betrayal. I learned eventually that that was okay and I wasn't a failure of a woman for loving a cheater. It can take your heart a bit to catch up with your brain." —Margo B.