It's not a competition about getting your partner to want you more or vice versa. If it's the case where your boyfriend takes you for granted and you're in a 'comfortable' zone, try some of these tips to reverse it and put some spark in your relationship. They've worked for me. http://find-a-boyfriend.tumblr.com/post/106117839648/16-tips-on-how-to-make-your-boyfriend-want-you
I agree. I remember my boyfriend on one of our pre-dates got really nervous and he just won't shut up when he's like that, so he just blabbed on and on and it is still one of the cutest things I've ever witnessed. But goodness, I was DEFINITELY the nervous one.