Unless someone themselves has suffered the loss of a baby/child they have NO CLUE what a mother goes through. Say nothing if you are going to say something STUPID, like, "oh, you have other children" or "you can have another one".
Losing a child at anytime is the worst thing anyone can ever experience in life. Whether a miscarriage, stillborn, or anytime. When a woman grieves the loss of her child she grieves when she grieves. It may not be the best time to outwardly grieve, but her heart is hurting, before you become quick to anger, try to understand the pain and as she hots the floor, hold her while she cries. A woman grieving the loss of a child needs nothing but time and support.
Sometimes grief makes me feellike I’m losing my mind. Like my brain has been hijacked. No, really. A few weeks ago, I read the beginning of a sentence over and over again about twenty or thirty times. It took me almost that long to figure out why my brain couldn’t makes sense of it. Then– […]