A must read for survivors of one or more narcissistic parent. If this wasn't you're childhood/adulthood you would think it impossible that people act like this... Unfortunately it's usually accompanied with physical abuse and punishment.
Moving Into the Light: Children of Narcissist Parents, Toxic Parents: this journey of self-discovery is yours alone; one you must take without the approval or the company of your toxic parent. Each day you are on this journey you will grow a little bit more. Day by day, one day at a time.
How to Help Children of Narcissists. What did you call me when I used a pound of hamburger to feed your children. You was court ordered to buy the food for your children. You said I hate that f.....g c..t and then took what food was in the house. You are a terrible mother and eventually everyone will see it. You emotionally abuse your children every day.
The narcissist will dress them up in new clothes and mimic fun times in order to appear to be a living interested father. The thing is the narcissist is so truly disconnected emotionally he can't help but his assume his young children care more about his happiness than their own.