This is for Christian guys: Unless you are ready to ask for a woman's heart to marry her, you have NO right, to pursue her and ask for her heart...and you have NO right taking from her what is not yours sexually unless she's your wife. God calls you as a man, to protect her and watch out for her, above yourself.
I actually started crying when I saw this... I pray for my future husband all the time. To think that some man is praying to find me as I'm praying to find him is almost unthinkable, with my past experience. Yet he's out there. God is so good.