Exactly! Stop going against the court orders and do what is best for the child! It's Joint Custody and Shared Parental Responsibilities! Stop trying to pretend that the child is more "yours". You did not create the child all on your own. The courts decided it was best for both parents to have EQUAL rights regarding the child! The child has a right to have BOTH parents in her life, and a right to love BOTH parents without being made to feel guilty about it! Stop Parental Alienation!