In fact, when you define narcissism, it is accepted that there is a sadistic element present. So, for many narcissists, being cruel and hurtful gives their ego a boost. To them it means they are in control of others, they are dominant and therefore superior. Dr. David Mc Dermott, What Is Narcissism? A practical guide to protecting yourself.
We all have the right to change our story. In fact we have the responsibility to do so if we're unhappy with its outcome. Really we are the only ones who can change it. Instead of holding onto pain we can choose to take responsibility for our part and let it go. Instead of acting from our wounds we can choose to heal them and move forward. It can be convenient when we're stuck in our pain. There's a comfort to our chaos. We know the ins and outs of this feeling because we've been festering…
Your past is not your present. Whatever happened in your past is just that - your past. It makes you who you are today but it doesn't define how you need to move forward. Instead of dwelling on regrets or shame move forward confident that your future will be better. You've survived learned valuable lessons and can now use that to define a new future.
★ IME~SOLITUDE~ELODIE S...Welcome Elodie .S to UTOPIA IME and congratulations on your Solitude board's selection as a BEACON STAR BOARD. It is man's own solitude and his ability to find comfort within himself that enables him to experience his true existence. Your board takes us through that journey and shines a beacon of light on both ourselves and the road to Utopia. UTOPIA IME- Ivet, Maria, Elina Con Amor, Ivet