co-dependency. It was horrible until I learned how harmful this co-dependency crap really is. It took many hours of therapy, many years of practice, and most important of all......my desire to be happy in the life I created for myself, with my husband and daughters. Once I got it, no one could pull me in. It was not easy, but being co-dependent wasn't easy either.

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RELATIONSHIP BY YOUR BEHAVIOR. WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS IF YOU LOVE THE PERSON? MANY PEOPLE GROW UP IN DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES & WE GET A BIT MORE TAINTED THEN WE MIGHT THINK. SOME PEOPLE HOLD ON TOO TIGHTLY TO THE PAST & IT PREVENTS YOU FROM GOING TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN’T BE IN TWO PLACES MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY AT THE SAME TIME. 1.IT CONFUSES YOU. 2. IT BRINGS CONFUSION INTO YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP 3. WHAT YOU GET IS A DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP. WHATEVER ISSUES YOU HAVE YOU WILL…

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Sometimes emotional abuse is worse than the physical. They are wounds you can't see, and the thought that maybe you were actually the one who was always wrong just makes it worse.

1 Kings 20:1-21:29 {Be prepared to confront evil} Most of us do not like confrontation. Elijah was a man of extraordinary courage. God told him to go and ‘confront Ahab’ (v.18). Fearlessly he accused him of theft and murder and told him that he was in ‘the business of evil, defying God’ (v.20). Elijah’s words were so powerful that when Ahab heard them he repented. God showed him mercy (v.29). No matter what we have done, it is never too late to repent and seek God’s mercy.

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No, staying in a dysfunctional relationship is just as bad as marriage!!!! Fucking deadbeats who use kids and women don't deserve anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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You are allowed to terminate your relationship with toxic family members. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry & selfish & unforgiving & don't owe anyone an explanation for taking care of you.

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Men and Relationships - Enjoy being Single and Happy with it. The minute you crave the control of wanting a relationship is the minute you end up in a dysfunctional one. The pattern then translates to attracting more dysfunction as you search out "the one". Take a time out and regroup with your foundations. The last thing you want is to start thinking that everybody is an idiot or psychopath. lol

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