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A Pre-Divorce Checklist - Divorce is never easy, but collecting information and thinking through some of the issues before you even meet with your attorney can help you move through this life transition as smoothly as possible. Here’s a checklist outlining the kinds of information you’ll need to gather and why.
It's not always easy, but I have done my absolute best to shelter my wee ones from the effects of divorce with a difficult person. They may not recognize it now, but experience tells me they will respect me for it later!!
There’s nothing more emotionally draining than co-parenting with a high-conflict ex. The divorce docs may be signed, sealed and delivered but you’re still forced to deal with your ex’s antics. It’s certainly not easy, but if you’re armed with the right communication tools, you can get through it for your kids’ sake.