You're not here for the relationship with others. You're here for the relationship with Source. And from that relationship with Source, all kinds of meaningful other things will happen. Joy first. And then, anything else you have time for. Abraham Hicks
This is how I feel about most things in life. I want to experience the wonders of the world, I'm tired of this secondhand life! I'm a great listener, but I'm done hearing about all the wonderful things everyone else does, It's time to start seeing it myself!