As I have gotten older I have realized the significance of true friendship in my life. It has become apparent that the majority of people who care about me - I mean really genuinely care about what's going on in my life - are my friends.
narcissistic mothers destroy their own families by triangulating, manipulating, lying... greed, lack of the truth, and the unhealthy need of her approval will keep the flying monkeys very busy protecting the wicked witch of the south. if they don't want to know the truth, their loss. absolutely no loyalty in my family of origin. only greed. no contact.