Actually, I think we both went through EXACTLY who/what we needed to go through to be grateful for one another when we met. I remember him saying he felt like maybe, this was "God's wink" after a lot of disappointments. He was right. I couldn't have imagined I would be able to love someone who also allowed me to be completely myself, independent, do our own things...but be one unit. :)
I may not like some of the things I have done. I have accepted them and have used them to change myself. I no longer allow those experiences to keep me down. I no longer remember every little detail. Why keep the negative energy? I have moved on. Find peace, stop dwelling on the past, make a move to find your closure j. My number is still the same. Yell at me if you want. It doesn't hurt me anymore.
Grateful for my wildman.I've learned that you're in control of your own decisions, your own fate, you have the power to feel however you want. You decide to be OK w/your decisions and others are far from being responsible for that. You can't regret what you've done for others bc at some point you wanted to do that. Sitting around crying about it putting up a front like it's someone else's fault is childish. All you can do is learn and move on. Realize it's ur own fault but ur the solution.