They are ridiculous. Next time someone tries to send you on a guilt trip tell them you will pass on the guilt trip and wait to see what's behind curtain #2, that should get the point across.

They are ridiculous. Next time someone tries to send you on a guilt trip tell them you will pass on the guilt trip and wait to see what's behind curtain #2, that should get the point across.

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Emotional invalidation. These phrases are most often used to belittle and trivialize you. Usually used by the abusive person who hurt you in the first place. Often used by narcissistic personalities and rude toxic people. Normal people will never try to guilt trip you or shame you for your feelings.

Emotional invalidation. These phrases are most often used to belittle and trivialize you. Usually used by the abusive person who hurt you in the first place. Often used by narcissistic personalities and rude toxic people. Normal people will never try to guilt trip you or shame you for your feelings.

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Manipulation via Shaming and Guilt-Tripping: Using the Conscience of the Neurotic against Them by Dr. George Simon at http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/24/shame-guilt-neurotic-manipulation/

Manipulation via Shaming and Guilt-Tripping: Using the Conscience of the Neurotic against Them by Dr. George Simon at http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/24/shame-guilt-neurotic-manipulation/

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Guilt is something that eats at me from the inside out. When an abuser knows your weaknesses, they'll play on it so to be sure they destroy the parts of you that they are intimidated by! Flip 'em the ol' bird and flick it off like a booger!

Guilt is something that eats at me from the inside out. When an abuser knows your weaknesses, they'll play on it so to be sure they destroy the parts of you that they are intimidated by! Flip 'em the ol' bird and flick it off like a booger!

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Your time is too valuable to go through life letting people control you and put you on a guilt trip. Take control of your happiness.  -Joel Osteen

Your time is too valuable to go through life letting people control you and put you on a guilt trip. Take control of your happiness. -Joel Osteen

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Guilt Trips & Narcissistic Abuse. This is a common tactic the alienating parent uses on the child.

Guilt Trips & Narcissistic Abuse. This is a common tactic the alienating parent uses on the child.

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"Move on," "get over it!" and " let it go!" Are all emotionally abusive phrases. No one has the right to minimize, trivialize, belittle, or tell you how to feel......this is s common tactic abusers use to guilt trip you into feeling bad for having feelings and to try to take the blame off them for treating you badly

"Move on," "get over it!" and " let it go!" Are all emotionally abusive phrases. No one has the right to minimize, trivialize, belittle, or tell you how to feel......this is s common tactic abusers use to guilt trip you into feeling bad for having feelings and to try to take the blame off them for treating you badly

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I don't cater to bullshit. Friends, family, coworkers, complete strangers, doesn't matter. Own your shit or stay away from me

I don't cater to bullshit. Friends, family, coworkers, complete strangers, doesn't matter. Own your shit or stay away from me

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It's all about control! They have to have you under their thumb at all times. You can't have friends or family, you can't go anywhere without constant texting or calling or given a guilt trip. You can't have your own life at all and soon enough they suck your soul right out of you. NO CONTACT

It's all about control! They have to have you under their thumb at all times. You can't have friends or family, you can't go anywhere without constant texting or calling or given a guilt trip. You can't have your own life at all and soon enough they suck your soul right out of you. NO CONTACT

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