As long as others dictate your life you will always be at the bottom. Break free from others "advice". Am I the only person left in the world who does not give a **** about what others say and think about me? Yes I do care about what actions they take but they can think and say whatever they please.
Throughout this unfortunate journey I have found out who people truly are and how ones past and upbringing can truly impact their future! I have found how I have been raised w morals, values and integrity and for this I owe my parents, my sister and brother inlaw, and so many wonderful people in my life! Especially my children!