Be a once in a life time partner - male or female. Be love filled, grace filled, joyful, a hard worker who shares in the burdens or carries them awhile your partner is not able. Shower them with kindness. Laugh often. Be other focused. Supportive. Communicate lovingly. Be respectful. Proverbs 31 woman. Relationship / marriage - always be the best you can be.
In the end I had no idea who you even were.... After 31 years of knowing you and loving you, I will never wrap my head around what you've done... I'll never know how much of our marriage was a lie.....
I fell in love with him not because he silenced all of my fears or made me feel so safe. I fell in love with him because he awoke a sleeping lioness within me. A wild woman who knows only passion and freedom, and laughs away her fears.
He tells me all the time, that aside from having his kids, he wishes we met earlier in life. He so badly regrets most of the time with his ex. So now I make up for that "wasted" time as he calls it... he will never long for anything as long as he has me.