No contact. I cried at first, because I felt empty. Then I realized that what was missing was the stress and fear I had grown accustomed to. I filled the void with my own self worth until I felt safe again.
I've spent so much time holding hatred for the past. I look at the man who sexually assaulted me and thought why is he so happy when I'm so miserable but I been thinking and I need to learn forgiveness for myself. It's nothing about him. I need to help myself by letting go and healing.
I gave him too many chances that it was ridiculous! Don't do that to yourselves people!!! It's not worth it! Take it from an old wise woman...if they won't fight for u or the relationship LET them GO!!!