These skilled manipulators have an arsenal of tactics...They can inflict so much psychological warfare and make you suppress so much emotion that you can be backed into an emotional corner. When this happens, the intense frustration you feel, but are not allowed to express through normal communication, will cause you to blow up in a reaction of self-defense. Emotional reactions in self-defense to an abusive situation do not make you an abuser.
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And they can be disguised as good friends until they decide to test the boundaries w/a psychotic break that they will later blame you for. BEWARE. I felt so alone in dealing with this. Can't describe to anyone because the world believes all mothers are saints. I've been alone with this for 55 years. No more! Thank you, Pinterest!