Matthew And many will turn away from me and betray and hate each other. 11 And many false prophets will appear and will deceive many people. 12 Sin will be rampant everywhere, and the love of many will grow cold.
If it's not God's Will, He for sure won't demonstrate for you "divine providence." The Will of God cannot be replicated or duplicated, nor forced. A marriage done correctly exists spiritually before publicly.