"Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness." ~ Osho
Exactly. If you can not do things separately in a relationship without one feeling excluded, that is not mature love. In mature love, both parties know and understand that each is an individual and must be able to have a life outside of the relationship. You do NOT always have to be together to be in a relationship.