Yes yes yes!! Oh my gosh the "poor me" act was so incredibly exhausting to deal with. Everyone was always out to get him, he did nothing wrong. ALL his ex's were psycho, abusive skanks etc... Give me a break! The lies were as endless as the ocean is deep
what you learn when your mother, grand mother, and great grandmother are narcissistic. Toxic Families. What you learn when flying monkeys and enablers support the wicked witch of the south. why try. so i stopped using my voice . these words. narcissistic mothers destroy families.
Your N makes no effort to even acknowledge how his behaviour has hurt you. Expect him to blame you and tell you that you are the unreasonable one the whole way down the line. They deny they do it, deny they are the problem and lay the blame on someone else. That’s why the no contact rule is the only way out of the frustration and extra hurt. Waiting for an N to validate your experience or change the N behaviours could mean you will be trading emails at 90 and still not get...
No contact gives you the space and time to get your energy back ...Recovery from Emotionally Abusive Relationships; Education about Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People. Don't be a victim, don't just survive, Thrive LET THE CEMENT BENCH (available on Amazon) BE YOUR AHA MOMENT, PLEASE SHARE!!!