With finally having a name for what I'm dealing with, narcissistic abuse syndrome is probably the hardest thing the Lord has put me through, because I deal with issues I still have from that past relationship every day. But I know if I focus on the lord, I can do anything... Which mean I will get over this and I will get through it.
Don't engage.. That was this morning, with insults about her eating habits, telling her she "ate a cow" and then arguing over his request to have her an extra night and suggesting she (a 4 year old) should decide! I REFUSED TO ARGUE IN FRONT OF OUR CHILD. BUT THE ABUSIVE NATURE OF HIS BEHAVIOUR IS VILE.