Let the devil go and focus on the good in your life the people that truly love u and care for u your daughter and your wife not someone who doesn't care and only uses u and proved that too u. She only uses men to get what she wants and has numerous in the side and a husband at home or working to support her while she messed around on him.
Boom!!!!! Oh I'm sorry, did that hurt your feelings? I forgot your the only one who is allowed to have feelings or at least only your feelings matter. When you notice my absence you know I used the knife in my back to cut the cord.
aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut. There are some guys in this world who will invent bullcrap about their exes in order to look more appealing. (And women will do this too, guys! Their act is usually the damsel in distress, battered woman act.) Avoid! Period.
I hate to agree with this, but yes. It is not necessarily our faults though. Not always. The first thing we see is the outside. But I wish we could actually SEE personality, and values, and deep underlying emotions.
People think the only things that happen in your life are posted to social media. Not true. Some of thre best things and places I don't post, because they'll either copy you or show up to some of those same places.