My friends, family, past boyfriends and my husband all say I'm so different to most people and thats why they love me. I grew up thinking it was an insult when someone would say I was different. Now I see it as a compliment. I like being different. At least I'm original.
The original quote I saw was: “Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through our expectations.” Sounds enlightened? New-agey-consciously-correct? Right? But I wholeheartedly disagree with this language. And it’s at the root of most of the confusion within healthy, or rather unhealthy, relationship dynamics.