Realized how self destructive begging people for love. Learn to love yourself first. If you don't know how to love yourself nobody is gonna know how to either. Know that grass isn't always greener on the other side. Sometimes some relationships take more work than others, but if they are worth it then put in the effort. Yet sometimes it's about being patient as we've all been hurt and some take longer than others to let their guard down.

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Day 7/90 Body Beast Weight Lifting Program Let's talk about putting yourself first As busy moms we often put ourselves last but creating a path to self-care requires that you put yourself first there are no two ways around it. Sound selfish? Maybe. But other peoples needs can often wait while you get your exercise routine in. Ask your husband/partner/family member to watch the kids while you get your 30 minutes in. Have your kids join you during your workout. Set your alarm a little…

Women...value yourselves. Put your own oxygen masks on first. We can guve and help othrrs only from our overflow and reserve of good energy. We must help ourselves first and then give to others. VALUE YOURSELVES EVEN IF IT MEANS HARD WORK! Love and light to you all! | This quote courtesy of @Pinstamatic (

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Ephesians4:5~Speaking the truth in love, we are to GROW-UP in every way into Him who is the head (more 'like' Christ) .. the truth will hurt at times, but choose to look at the big picture, LOVE others as yourself but put GOD's way & Word FIRST.... for myself I would rather be hurt by truth than flattered with a LIE tells the truth with kind compassion.

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"That’s the problem with putting others first; you’ve taught them you come second." If that is your choice, that is fine, just be aware of the repercussions of putting yourself second.

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That's the problem with putting others first: you've thought them you come second! #oliviabosschick

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114 days n counting..... I will not be the first to blink. You may pretend all you'd like, but this time you're gonna make the first move, you will blink first. Not by an email, but with a phone call, or maybe you'll stop by one weekend and your name will be on the room and you'll be granted a room key...... Just maybe. I don't know if I'd consider that a bday present or not tho.

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Powerful. So many of us want to give the world to others or to someone, but I truly believe that it's necessary to be selfish before you can be selfless. A great book I'm reading puts it even better..."thinking of ourselves first in terms of self-fullness, not selfishness." Put yourself first and you will have more to give whole heartedly. ~m

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That's the problem with putting others first - -

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