Toxic people (backstabbers, liars, deceivers) won't stop getting involved in your life behind your back until they think they have done everything they can to screw you over. The best thing to do is just close the door on them and never open it again. Toxic people love to brag to others about how they're screwing you over but they always make it sound as if it's your fault everything happened or they're doing it to protect you (for example - to keep you away from an "abusive" man).
Especially when the liar is egotistical, delusional, and extremely lonely. Fixated on someone she will never have because he thinks she is a nut job. Get a life. Putting it out there in the universe is not going to make it happen. It is only causing people to think your a fucking loon. Go pace with a crystal some more opportunistic freak show.