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RED FLAG ALERT- A quick moving relationship, love bombing, showering attention, putting you on a pedestal...Fast moving relationships are a HUGE RED FLAG!!!!! You need to GET REAL, this person showering you with compliments and attention does not even know you...This is NOT what normal healthy adults do!!!! #Stop #Domestic #Violence

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Red Flag #30. Your feelings. After a run-in with a psychopath, you will feel insane, exhausted, drained, shocked, suicidal, and empty. You will tear apart your entire life—spending money, ending friendships, and searching for some sort of reason behind it all.

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Red Flag #10. You find yourself playing detective. It’s never happened in any other relationship, but suddenly you’re scrolling back years on their Facebook page and albums. Same with their ex. You’re seeking answers to a feeling you can’t quite explain.

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Red Flag #27. Gaslighting. Blatantly denies their own manipulative behavior and ignores evidence when confronted with it. They will become angry if you attempt to disprove their delusions with facts.

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It took me a long time to realize he was a liar because he disclosed so much...even bad things. But there were so many lies of omission and reweaving of partial truths. He is a master of deception

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Red Flag #15. Cannot put themselves in your shoes, or anyone else’s for that matter. You find yourself desperately trying to explain how they might feel if you were treating them this way, and they just stare at you blankly.

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Red Flag #11. Surrounds themselves with former lovers and potential mates. Brags that their exes still want to sleep with him/her, but assures you there is nothing to worry about. These people make you feel jealous and give off the perception that your partner is in high-demand.

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Red Flag #25. You fear that any fight could be your last. The family mantra of I've picked a fight, if you're upset, "I'm done"

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