Exactly! Sober up. Don't give yourself away so easily. Stop chasing, begging, or tricking men into being with you. Show the respect for another's marriage, family, and happiness that you would want for your own. It's never too late to earn respect, and it starts with yourself.
."There is not true freedom without limits. Setting boundaries with your charges, and your employers from day one is mandatory to keep the harmony flowing in the house and to support a healthy growth in the child" The LA Nanny Book~
I Deserve Peace. Peace from chaos. I was always there for people in my life. When I mean there. calling, talking in person, visiting. I was too much there for them. Almost self sacrificing for others I cared for. Was talking on there stuff. For the first time I have been there for me. Able to work on myself/ new goals, so that i can meet new professionals, friendships, and a respectable partner. It has been very challenging. Learned Who is there for me. how used I was. i have a choice. My…
Sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride – it’s self-respect. Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people. Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value and what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/05/23/14-rules-for-being-you/