Exactly! He was so tired of the crap! The final straw was the fb post saying they were getting married no matter what! Wrong! He called it off. Since she didn't get what she wanted, when she wanted it, she found Another Victim to control. Set her hooks in quickly by getting pregnant.
Ghosting can be a form of avoidant abuse - where a person stops communication and contact with another completely, permanently, without justification. Cutting off indefinitely via non contact is an extreme form of silent treatment. It is also called 'excommunication' or 'dissapearing act'. narcissism emotional silent treatment abuse #ghosting #emotional abuse #narcissm
When someone walks away after you stand up for yourself, and you don't hear from them for days or weeks. That is not normal. In fact, it's abuse. It's emotional neglect, they obviously don't generally care for you... Please understand that's not real love at all… you're not a door mat to be walked on, your a friend, partner or spouse & deserve better treatment.
NarcMothers LOVE to use the silent treatment. I say it repeatedly to those I counsel now. It's a prime weapon in their arsenal used for both punishment and control. Refuse to be manipulated by it and do the last thing they expect - return the FAVOR. Silence it turns out, is a blessing when dealing with a Narcissist. NO contact. ~ A.N.