Everyone will find out your lies.....If he is such a deadbeat then lets take a paternity test!! You just don't want everyone to realize that you are a liar who has blamed a kid on my husband for 7 years now. FYI when it comes back not his you have to pay him all of the child support "you are not getting" back!
And I will keep speaking the truth and doing what I have to. If you don't like it tough. I always speak the truth sometimes people just don't like to hear it and they turn on you like if you are doing wrong by stating how it really is.
I really need to work out this. I know that sounds bad but all the lies I say to him its not because I don't want to tell him but I don't think he could handle it. And he always finds out anyways but I eventually tell him but he would've handled it ten times better if I would've been honest. Because every time I am, we don't fight. We may have to talk things out but there is no argument and no where close to as painful as that plus a lie.
I don't- I hate it. I hate to be lied to when I KNOW the truth. IT makes me feel so abused by the liar, and so underestimated. Just tell the truth and dispense with the nonsense, or simply don't begin.
the whole truth... a lie is a lie. You have to live with it, the caliber of a human it forces you to become can ways be changed. Break free, break loose. Be who you are, be who you're meant to, be yourself. Don't let somebody dictate your opinions, ideas or force you to tell someone something you don't want. That is unhealthy, that is not you. That is manipulative abuse. I hope you become aware Megan