This picture describes Isobel's situation. Isobel was so in love with Marco. Even though she realizes in time that Celia and Marco's bond is far greater than theirs was, the time she spent waiting on him broke her heart. He stood her up countless times, and she was in denial for the longest time about it. He left her in the dust while she was still waiting for his return to her.
Proverbs 18:22 (KJV) - "He who FINDS A WIFE, finds a GOOD THINGS and obtains favor from the Lord." Nowhere in this Scripture do I find it telling women to go find a man, ask them out or ask them to marry them. Notice that when he pursues and finds her, it's favor of the Lord and what he finds is GOOD. When it's reversed,,, well, let's just say, it's not all rainbows and sunshine. So STOP SEARCHING AND WAIT ON THE LORD.