25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. After all, time has a mind of its own!
Narcissists truly believe they are superior with a grandiose ego that needs constant attention. They feel everyone else is beneath them and the world is out to get them. They only conduct themselves and participate in ways that benefit themselves or that cast the spotlight upon themselves. They need to be the center of attention and crave power and control over others. Having a constant supply and multiple harems to fulfill their needs is a must. - The Lost Self - Life After Narcissism
Narcissists have an innate radar for the good empathetic people they target to exploit and ultimately destroy. Narcissists deeply envy all the good qualities you possess and also see you as a bit of a sucker for being so kind and loving. A narcissist feels entitled to exploit and destroy you. Like that's what you get for being such a good honorable person. This is how the sick mind of a narcissist works.
Your Voice – What it is and How It Is Silenced By the Narcissist. This is an incredible article for those recovering from narcissistic abuse. Narcissistic abusers don't want you to talk about the abuse because it unmasks them and threatens their control over you and others.
25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist This couldnt be more spot on for My Ex(well actually a few exs of mine) when any person has to belittle there Ex in anyway theyre just Cowards that have to hide behind their web of lies cause they dont want the world to find just what kind of person they really are!If you dont want people to think less of you then dont behave in a way that they would have a reason to!
Very Good Video on How to leave a narcissist! "more than likely been doubting what your senses have been telling you. Because you've invested so much time in the person…might as well put up w/ it because it's really hard finding somebody else, getting a divorce is expensive...All the hoops that you've jumped thru, all the sacrifices, all the bad behavior that you've tolerated.." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts4deaT3Dd8
my stomach churns as i read this. my mother and ex friend did many of these things to me all the time. now i'm beginning to suspect that yet another one of my friends is a narc... what am i? a narc magnet? why can't i have people who will just accept me as i am and be a real friend to me?
What we need to understand is this - the narcissist is severely emotionally stunted and underdeveloped. Regardless of however mentally high functioning a narcissist appears to be, they have the emotional intelligence of an angry, irrational young child.
what you learn when your mother, grand mother, and great grandmother are narcissistic. Toxic Families. What you learn when flying monkeys and enablers support the wicked witch of the south. why try. so i stopped using my voice . these words. narcissistic mothers destroy families.