You can be feminine and still be a feminist. But you're a pretty crappy feminist if you shame girls who like to be feminine. We're supposed to be fighting for feminine qualities NOT being shamed by society, not do it ourselves and call it feminism.
We're not saying we can help alleviate that initial pit in your stomach, that incessant panicked thought of "I need a job." That's natural. But we can help you kick ass immediately after. Here's what you need to do when you've been fired.
I know this doesn't normally go with this board but that point is ducking important and we all know whether you want to accept it or not that there is an inequality between genders and that is women aren't trying to get above you, we're trying to be equal.