Living for God is not about religion. I live for Him because He is the sole provider of peace on my darkest day, and hope when my world is crashing down around me. Only Jesus could see me at my worst and still love me with an undying, relentless love.
"Lord, if it's not your will, let it slip through my grasp and give me the peace not to worry about it anymore." - however, if something is going to slip through your grasp it may require actively opening your hands