Fill your children with good thoughts before they go to bed. Ask them about their favorite part of the day, praise them for a good deed, pray with them, and tell them they’re the best gift God ever gave you. They’ll fall asleep feeling ten feet tall.
Don't ask kids what they want to be when they grow up. Ask them what problems they want to solve. This changes the conversation from who I want to work for to what do I need to learn in order to be able to do that.