It's OK, if it's what god wanted. So because god is inherently good and his words are the basis of christian morality, it is good and moral to kill a woman for not being a virgin before she is married or wanting a divorce.
Atheist parenting - you don't need to shelter them from religious dogma. Teach them the morals that religion thinks it has the exclusivity on, and teach them to look at things with an open mind and they will see for themselves how religion works.
This is where I conflict with most UU beliefs. I *don't* necessarily respect all paths/religions. Some theist people I respect more than others, some religions I respect more than others, but I utterly dismiss some and have disdain for some.