I've never heard of this... First Fight Box. Write love letters to each other and place into a box along with a bottle of wine.nail it shut at the wedding. When you have your first fight, open it up, pour the wine, go to separate corners, read the love letter & remember what it's all about.
He was interviewed & did a Q&A when I was at UCLA. It was right after Forrest Gump. Some girl got to the mic, said her name was Jenny and said she'd be stoked if he called her Jen-nay. Everyone cringed. He obliged. It was classy.