A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people true colors.
Yes you did. No sympathy once you knew and continued to sleep with a married man all respect lost. Karma is wonderful. You should have been more focused your kids instead of trying to be me and take over my life.