when things (or people continue to) go wrong, wisely and lovingly appeal, and if they don't take heed then politely bail.. but don't proceed with em as close friends if they are hurting people. bad company corrupts good morals.
The truth i've been terrified to admit all along. It's so much easier to say I don't believe in love. Maybe its out of security of not getting heart. Maybe it's because i'm truly terrified that it doesn't believe in me.