I used to want to find someone who checked all the boxes on my list. Boy, did I have it all wrong. Now I see love and relationships are about finding someone who not only vibes with you, but also wants to continue to grow and evolve as a person. Relationships are an invitation to be our best selves and a container to do just that. If they're not calling you out, they're not the one. Being powerful doesn't scare great partners, it attracts them, it turns them on, it gives them soulgasms…