I am invited to pose with guests for a photograph Immediately after this, Bukari's parents and relatives left, heading back to their neighbouring home town of Bawku. At another date, a similar ceremony will be held there and Sandra will become part of her husband’s family. Meantime, those staying took the nearest paths to the site for celebrations, marked out with three large gazebo- type open tents and rows of seating, arranged around a cleared space-which was to be a dance floor. While…