Not feeling secure in a relationship

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Love after abuse

In a relationship, the goal is real connection, and that only happens when both people are willing to be vulnerable. But being vulnerable only works when you both feel safe enough to open up without fear of being judged or shut down. That’s why it’s so important to create an environment where you both feel secure sharing your thoughts, feelings, and even your insecurities. To make that happen, it’s important to really listen to each other, show empathy, and avoid getting defensive when…

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Consistency is what makes you feel safe, secure, and loved in a relationship. As human beings, even from childhood, we thrive on consistency because it fosters a sense of reliability, trust, and stability. It’s through consistent actions that we learn to feel valued and cared for, knowing we can count on the people we love. When consistency is lacking, it can destabilize your sense of security, leaving you feeling anxious, uncertain, and emotionally unsupported. It can break you because…

Never make your special personal feel alone.

In order to feel you can thrive, building security in relationships is crucial. Whenever we feel unsupported in relationship dynamics, we need to re-evaluate the relationship with ourselves and through doing this, we can ensure the lens in which we view others feels even more supportive. Being able to reflect and encourage yourself based on what you value will mean you will be able to ascertain whether those expectations are met. This in turn will support you in showing up in a way which...

We crave a secure relationship but it’s important to be realistic about what that means. You’ll still argue. There will be misunderstandings. Sometimes you’ll feel insecure. Sometimes you may have doubts. You’ll still get triggered. So do they. You’ll always be human. But you’ll be human together. You heal together. You grow. And you both keep choosing your relationship. That way, you’ll grow more and more secure. If you want help with ❤️ growing more secure ❤️ dealing with triggers ❤️…