Ask yourself the question - “If there was no intercourse, what would we do?” This really opens up the door for more sexuality in your everyday life. If you think everything has to end in intercourse that can be a struggle for many couples. They often think that if intercourse isn’t available, then all playfulness and sexuality is off the table. It begins to create that arousal and that sexual tension. It’s not a second rate sexual experience, it’s just a different kind of sexual experience.