I have come to realize that I am not going to get stuff back that was stolen from me. It sucks. THEY suck, but I am moving on because they aren't worth my time. Had she been a true friend, I would have had it back ASAP. She had every intention of hurting me, and for that I have faith in Karma. It is no longer my job to be mad. Time to just let it be and move on with my amazing life.
See a guy and a girl can be friends at least for a little while... There's a video that I saw once that asked random guys and girls if they could be friends with the opposite gender and 100% of the girls said yes and 100% of the guys said no.