Shaming Girls For Their Bodies vs Teaching Men Responsibility. You dont have to be a rocket scientist to figure out which option is the correct one. God it pisses me off when people don't fucking understand this and teach it.
Plus no matter how drunk, or provocative someone is dressed there not asking for it, if they were asking for it, it wouldn't be called rape! This is why we need to teach people not to rape rather than teaching people not to be victims.
Perhaps you should just try to enjoy getting hit with a spade. Doesn't the human body have ways of shutting that whole thing down? Maybe you shouldn't dress for gardening if you don't want to be hit by a spade.