Wisdom for a great marriage: “Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave. Likewise… Let the husband make the wife glad to come home, and let her make him sorry to see her leave.
Look for something positive in each day, even if some days you have to look a little harder
Good to remember, when you are having a bad day would you want someone to make it WORSE? Kids don't always know how to say what is bothering them. Be their savior NOT their problem or antagonist. They will value you for it.