Though try as you might, I'll put up a fight!! It's never okay to treat your wife this way. Especially since having a precancerous polyp removed..and needing a biopsy to make sure it's not spreading. I'm getting through this on my own now. No worries.
...and sometimes no matter how diligently you try, you can't, so you tuck them away in that far away place in your heart, hold your head up high like the Lady or Gentleman you are and you move on without resentment, without pause because your own life has to matter too!
It's kinda hard to do that when it's yourself or seeing your parents relationship fall apart because your mom is crazy and you somehow know that you're going to be that crazy one day and don't want anyone else to have to deal with that