It is a practice to speak less and to listen more... I know a lot, think a lot, feel a lot and notice everything... I just have practiced my way out of being able to express myself in a coherent way vocally... I can write it down for you if you want...
Clear your mind here : Me : ok. This world brings us in this life through many lies. That's why we'd better to learn how to doubt instead how to trust. When you finally meet yourself , your soul in God, through Jesus, there, and only there you learn what 'The Word' 'Trust' mean. There you can start to build. Because, you know, and when you know you understand, then everything else start to fall in place
If they can prove to be trustworthy and show they have changed then there is Aways hope of reconciliations. 9 times out 10 it does not work though. Trust us so hard to build back up and betrayal is a pain not easily forgotten. Hmmm. Certain family members
I live by this, so when people say "oh you're so lucky" because I have a great husband or amazing friends it's because I wouldn't tolerate anything less! Treat people w/love and respect but expect it in return being a doormat is NOT cute....you're welcome